Your profile online needs to express your personality and show that you are open to casual relationship. It doesn't mean you are looking for wild physical contact. Please don't do that. The best is to look for interesting and insightful people. You can write: "I ultimately want a complete combination, but in the process, there will be a lot of fun." You are depicting the scene you imagined in the first place.
Browse others pictures and don't read your profile. Don't read their profiles first. When someone matches you, then read the profile and decide whether to reply. Text frequently is a good way. Many adult affair finders say they don't want to send text messages endlessly. It doesn't need to last months, but the best intimacy comes with a connection. So, do more hot flirting and send pornographic text messages to build expectations and make yourself feel better about the person's personality. If you feel unsafe and relaxed, you will not enjoy the nsa hookup.
It won't take long. It just needs a sense of openness and adventure, and some mental fragility. Make sure you're talking about birth control and avoiding sexually transmitted diseases. Take appropriate action, such as prepare the condoms, or do the test and share results with each other. As I said, physical contact is better when you feel comfortable and relaxed. Before making love, you should feel like you are true friends, like people who respect each other and want to please each other.
Meet at public places. Tell him that you will have coffee with him, instead of going to bed with him after the first meeting. He may smell weird, or you just get the wrong atmosphere from him. Believe in yourself, you know before the coffee is finished. You may know in one minute. You can change your mind at any time and take him home, but if he does not want to hook up the first time he meets, you will not feel any obligation.
Do not drink too much when you first meet and hook up together. Don't dress up for a casual date. The first meeting was not a date. Don't go drinking, get drunk, and then bring him back to have physical contact. If you need to get drunk for nsa hookup, which is a good sign that you need to lower your taboos for adult affair dating. This means that there are things you didn't face. Figure out what are you facing, and make it work.